So I came across this little gem of a video online a couple days ago:

It’s it’s of uber talented singer Steph Jones (Who i’ve met heehee!) recently celebrating his ‘Twenty-Something’ birthday party with a bit of a pole dance while his close friend (rumoured girlfriend) Jordin Sparks looks on.

I began reading some of the viewer comments discussing Steph’s ‘apparent disrespect’ to Jordin by having a pole dancer present. Some of the comments are quite harsh and I thought to myself, ‘what’s the big deal? It’s only a poledancer’. Am i the only one who thinks this? I asked my bf how he would feel if i had a male stripper at my party with him in the room and..well i can’t quite remember his exact words but it included threats and notions of violence (upon me lmao). I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it though! Like, i would literally feel NO way whatsoever. It’s all in good fun right? I would gladly hire a pole dancer for my bf (with me being in the room obv)…does that make me too trusting?
Men are arseholes, i think we can all agree lmao but sometimes we should give them the benefit of the doubt LOL.